Do boundaries go out the window in case of emergency? It's a question each of us has to answer for ourselves and for me, the answer was no. Her mother had had a significant heart attack but by that time, I just couldn't open myself up anymore. We'd been friends for years, practically our whole lives, but the constant judgement, always being in the wrong and in the end, finally understanding I could not trust her with anything, forced me to walk away. I love her mother, she'd

I sat there, looking at the text on my phone, and thought to myself, "One of us has to let go before someone literally gets killed..." We had been friends for years, dated in the 90's and, as is my habit, Actor and I stayed friends long after that part of our relationship was over. For all the years I lived in LA, he'd been in New York City or Minneapolis and now that I moved to Florida, he'd relocated to LA. I was always grateful for the effort made to remain in each other’